
Beanie: Army Surplus, Top & White Wristband: c/o Chi Flo, Vintage Army Jacket: Rachel's, Pants: Nasty Gal, Shoes: Converse
Is it like, uber passé to blog about people who have hurt you/pissed you off? Who am I, Taylor Swift? I mean, it's quite a cheap shot isn't it. It's just so easy. It is the ultimate victorious response to someone else's malevolence against you and for the most part, it feels fucking good. On the other hand, it accomplishes nothing except internal satisfaction for presumably coming up on top by talking shit in some witty or clever way, which is one of my few...."talents." Can I use that word here?
Knowing how difficult - if not impossible - it is to ever completely recover from certain below-the-belt comments made by those closest to you, I'd be best advised to "be the better person" by keeping my mouth shut. I just wish that doing that felt half as good as giving a certain someone my piece of mind.
There are those who profoundly believe that they have exclusive access to the truth. The more certain they are, the further from reality they really are. And I still can't stop being hung up on debating the pros and cons between keeping the higher ground versus submitting a crafty response. But I think I'd rather let others become the invisible ones.
On a completely other note: The UNIF Hellbound Giveaway is still going strong. Winner will be announced on March 20th. Find out how to win on this post.
'Tis all.


really like this post! you're very beautiful and stylish xx
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xxBianca
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you look amazing.
ReplyDeleteand yes its certainly harder to let things go and "be the bigger person".. damn i hate when i have to be the bigger person lol.. but in the end, youll save yourself from looking as foolish as they did.
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Love your outfit! You're beautiful!
ReplyDelete!!!Your shirt is the cutest. Srsly. Sometimes (often) I feel the need to spitefully blog about people IRL who piss me off, but I don't because I am TERRIBLE at confrontation and like to seen like ~the better person~ or whatnot. AT LEAST U LOOK SUPER COOL BEING THE BETTER PERSON :)))
ReplyDeleteyou're beautiful
ReplyDeleteI am seriously in love with you! The way you talk is just amazing and I have the same feeling recently, you handle this shit like a boss <3
ReplyDeletedef better to not say anything. not caring is actually the best form of revenge, and it also happens to be the most mature and least embarrassing way to deal with things.
ReplyDeleteas a reader, however, i would sooo love to know or at least see what prompted this.
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lindsey
fraululu.blogspot.com
Your shirt is too cute and you look gorgeous!!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with evetything you said. Sometimes it's hard to be the "better" person, but that csn also be rewarding and more so than telling someone off.
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annpaige
i feel for you, it is sometimes hard to be the better person cos you feel those that hurt you need to dealt some karma, but, i remind myself that karma is not mine to deal. In others news, your outfit is fucking amazing! marry me? ;)
ReplyDeletelove this look, love your top so much xx
ReplyDeletePerfect look! Cheers to you for being the "bigger" person. Hope everything's better soon :/
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That crop top is so amazing, you look lovely
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I can never do this, I can never just shut up and leave it be. I need to get it out of my system, because my nerves won't take it :D I need to scream and shout until that person gets what he deserves. I don't believe in "karma" or that the "universe will take care of him", no, if he hurt me, I'm going to hurt him. There has to be balance :D
ReplyDeleteCoolest look so far, the hat is awesome, your camo jacket is something I desperately want right now! <3
You always look so amazing, love the beanie! xx
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OMG your happy face bindi...yes. Also love that pink beanie. ALSO...you tell her girl!
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gorgeous style, adoring your blog miss!
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Is that a "yolo" bracelet I see? I surely hope so. Everything is great on this outfit.. and everything you said, yes. Yes to it all. I am sorry as well. I love you tons! <3
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